Acknowledge What Happened
Simply recognizing such an event is tremendously valuable. You do not need to say a lot if you are not comfortable doing so and in the event of a student death, confidentiality may limit what you know or can say happened. Keep in mind your role is not to act as a therapist or counselor, but students often appreciate if you acknowledge the event. You might choose to open with:
- "I am saddened (or angered or frustrated) by..."Â
- "I know many of us have been affected by..."Â
- "Recently, many on our campus have been shaken by..."Â
- "It is important for all of us to support one another at these difficult times."Â
- Holding a moment of silence for reflection.Â
You may also invite your students to talk about how they want to approach the upsetting issue as a class.Â
Keep in mind that in some cases, different students may have very different reactions to the same event, particularly political events. In such cases, acknowledging that people are suffering while avoiding blame or implying everyone should have the same reaction may be useful.
Communicate with your graduate instructors and TAsÂ
In the event of a student death, faculty should notify the graduate instructors and TAs who are part of their teaching teams as soon as possible to share resources, provide appropriate support, and align on how to do the same for students in the course. This will allow TAs to respond quickly in their recitations and office hours. TAs may also be impacted by these events as well, so consider how you will support them. Â